My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

I'm Persian/Greek. I have very white skin, dark brown eyes, dark brown hair. My whole life my mother has told me that women with blonde hair and blue eyes are the most prettiest. She even said men in my family who married blonde women-that the women in their family are very pretty. If there was a beauty contest on tv she says its fixed if a bruntte loses to a blonde, she says blondes with blue eyes are prettier than brunette girls. Its given me a mjor complex to the point where i have gotten colored contacts, dyed my hair.. A modeling agency discovered me and told me Im lucky to have dark brown eyes and brown hair, and i started modeling while in college. My mom saw the pics and goes "wow i cant believe thats you"? She has never shown anyone my modeling photos and keeps it a secret like im ugly or something. In the back of my head I always feel ugly because of the things she said to me. "

Whats her problem?

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

Please don't let a person's insecurities cause you to doubt your own beauty and self worth (even if it is your mother). Please be proud of the "cards" you were dealt in this life and make the most of them.

If your mother does not have blonde hair and blue eyes- then she may have turned her envy of this into self hate.

If she does have blonde hair and blue eyes- then she may have self-esteem issues so profound that she only feels good when she puts others down.

Either way- you can counter her negativity by seeing it for what it is and concentrate on strengthening your own view of yourself.

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

blonde hair and blue eyes. ain't that pretty.

You be happy with dark hair and eyes.

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

Your mom has been brainwashed. She will either have to learn to get out of that mentality on her own, or you will have to learn to ignore it, and accept that you are beautiful. "Blonde hair, blue eyes - prettiest"? - come on. You know that isn't true.

All women are beautiful.

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

your sooooo lucky im a natural blonde with blue eyse and all my life i have been jealous of girls with brown hair and brown eyes maybe it is something to do with your mum maybe some girls when she was at school gabe her a hard time and those girls had blonde hair blue eyes but dont think your ugly otherwise why would someone from a modelling agency pick you? so you cant be ugly ditch the contacts and the blonde and stand proud because one girl here in the uk is jealous of you

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

Brown Hair and brown eyes just shows you not Albino..... And in my opinion people with Brown hair and brown eyes are much more prettier than Blonde hair %26amp; blue eyes it is just so common today... but seriously is you mother Blonde haired blue's eyes ? Obviously If you been picked up by the Modeling industry and they say your lucky you are and your pretty so be happy you have Brown hair %26amp; Brown eye's

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

Your mom has a problem! Everyone beautiful and "pretty". Your mom just has a complex too or has experience that and sadly she's doing the same to you! Tone her out when she makes those comments or think about havin a word wit her. Cause if the modeling place thought you look nice and if you believe that in your heart who iz she to say that and act the way she does?????? She doesn't! Have a word wit her and cont to hold your head up!

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

Since you're old enough tell her to **** off. Also tell her that you hope they'll be a blond with blue eyes who will take care of her when she's 80 to change her diapers because an ugly brunette won't do it.

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

What hair/eye color does your mom have?

Edited to add:

That's what I expected- she doesn't have blue eyes or blonde hair. She clearly has a personal complex about her looks and is projecting it onto you.

Some mothers are like this- it is unfortunate that your mother is one of them.

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

Its your mother's problem. You are beautiful, just believe it!

Peace!

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

If that is what she believes, than let her believe it. But don't let her words or opinions try to influence your judgement. You know what you like, afterall. But that's kind of bold that your mom would say that out to you. I mean everyone's physical traits appeals to another.

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

I have blonde hair and blue eyes and sometimes I want to have brown hair and pretty brown eyes, everybody has there opinions but don't let your mom choose yours. We all are beautiful in one way or another.

p.s. just cause we have blonde hair and blue eyes does not mean that we are albino, besides is there anything wrong with being albino?

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

your mother is wrong.... green eyes, like mine are the best....

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

HEY NOW... Im brunette with brown eyes and im a very sucessful model!!!! Dont worry what she thinks. Brunettes and way prettier than blondes and we have that heart warming,BEAUTIFUL look when blondes are dumb and mostly look like sluts...most of them wear those nasty *up their butts* mini skirts and gross push up tops. Dye your hair back brunette and lose those contacts...your probably a beautiful girl. dont worry about that stuff be the real brunette girl you are. also...dont let her keep those pictures secrets!!! Get 'em out there!!!

GOOD LUCK!!! **~hope i helped!!~**

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

your mom has serious issues please don't go there with her.brown hair and brown eyes are beautiful and if your a model, you go girl!!!!

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

personally I will not date women with blonde hair. My preference has always been for the darker hair colors and eyes. I guess you should tell your mother that it's not true because I certainly don't date ugly women.....

My mother keeps saying girls with blonde hair and blue eyes are better than me?

You need to believe in yourself.You don't need to be blonde to be very good looking i have never seen you but by the way you talk you must be. Its not what people think its what you think.